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Saturday, February 19, 2011

WHAT DO ANGELS LOOK LIKE?



Like the little old lady who returned your wallet yesterday.
Like the taxi driver who told you that your eyes light up the world, when you smile.
Like the small child who showed youth wonder in simple things.
Like the poor man who offered to share his lunch with you.
Like the rich man who showed you it really is all possible, if only you believe.
Like the stranger who just happened to come along,
When you had lost your way.
Like the friend who touched your heart when you didn't think you had one left to touch.
Angels come in all sizes and shapes and both genders and all ages and skin types.
Some with freckles some with dimples, some with wrinkles, some without.
They come disguised as friends, enemies, teachers, students, lovers and fools.
They don't take life too seriously and t hey travel light and often do not leave a forwarding address,
They ask for nothing in return they wear sneakers with gossamer wings,
They get a deal on dry cleaning but are often they are hard to find when your eyes are closed,
But they are everywhere you look when you choose to see…may we always open our eyes, hearts and mind so we never mess those everyday angels in all our lives.
--Veronica M. Hay

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

MANY BABY BOOMERS ARE NOT RETIRING..THEY ARE LIVING LONGER AND STRONGER

Coralie Darsey-Malloy
Baby boomers are valiantly signaling their advancement into the golden years with fitness routines, healthy lifestyle choices and supplementation in their diets. However, many who are already there have not had the same advantages. Too many of our elders suffer from depression. Their diets are frequently devitalized, current health management is symptom relief rather than holistic-care and dramatic lifestyle changes occur when they are least equipped to handle them. Others have been forced into retirement because of chronic health problems or disabilities that may create additional care-taking responsibilities, sadness and loneliness. Any of these co-factors is enough to create depression, but when they occur simultaneously it is not surprising that people feel overwhelmed and unsupported.

Brain Food Dozens of nutrients can alter the biochemistry of the brain. Even slight deficiencies can result in common complaints such as fatigue, mood swings and depression. Key among these brain nutrients are the B vitamins. Their catalytic action includes oxidation (the body’s ability to provide fuel and supply the brain with its energy source, glucose). Without enough glucose, the brain cannot function properly and mental health problems can arise. According to Eric Braverman, MD, of the Princeton Brain Bio Center in Skillman, NJ and Charles Tkaca, MD of the North Nassau Mental Health Center in Manhattan, NY, people who are not getting enough of B6 (pyridoxine) and B12 frequently get a host of psychiatric and neurological symptoms like confusion, depression, fatigue and psychosis. Some preliminary studies on autopsied Alzheimer’s patients revealed deficiencies of boron, potassium, selenium, B6 and B12. The lack of essential vitamins along with excessive amounts of aluminum directly or indirectly predispose one to Alzheimer’s disease. The B vitamins are also known to be involved in the production of neurotransmitters dopamine, serotonin and norepinephrine. These biochemicals allow brain cells to pass messages along their nerve pathways. Low serotonin levels can cause depression. The population that is currently approaching senior status will not be as accepting of the system as those before them. Our current elders have come through hard times and the depression. They are used to making do.

Baby boomers and their offspring are used to a more affluent lifestyle and will not settle for less. It’s obvious that in finding solutions for overcoming depression in seniors today, we are also helping those who are rapidly approaching their own senior years. The infinite wisdom of our provincial government of Manitoba decided to eliminate food made on site in local hospitals. Food is prepared and frozen in Toronto, sent to the hospitals and re-heated on the premises. Re-heated scrambled eggs, mashed potatoes and pasta are the most unappetizing foods I have ever seen. The obvious disgust of elderly patients is justified. This is a time when people need the best possible nourishment to maintain their strength and to heal. Offspring resort to bringing healthy food choices and vitamin supplements to parents because the system they pay for does not attend to one of the most important aspects of longevity--proper nutrition.

Some people have difficulty admitting sadness or guilt and prefer to withdraw into isolation. Symptoms of depression such as insomnia or sleeping frequently and for excessive periods of time; loss of appetite or ravenous appetite; headaches; blood sugar imbalances; backaches; gastro-intestinal upsets; feelings of worthlessness and inadequacy; irritability; and suicidal thoughts are often minimized and explained away as "getting old." This rationale does a great disservice to those in advancing years who accept their fate without question.

Working as a group facilitator and practitioner afforded me the opportunity to interact with people of all ages. I have had the pleasure of seeing another side to seniors through Creative Retirement Manitoba. Most of them take supplements, exercise and watch their diets. Their involvement with activities beyond their immediate family gives them independence and purpose. They have a commitment to lifelong learning and strive to feel in control. They interpret change as a challenge rather than a threat. Even those with health challenges are an inspiration. One woman has developed macular degeneration in her eyes and was not very mobile. She belonged to a computer club and refused to give up her favorite hobby. Her solution? Buy the biggest monitor she could and eventually go to voice recognition if she lost her sight completely!

To help prevent further degeneration she took eyebright (orally and eye drops) bilberry, vitamins A, C, E, B and zinc. It is this combination of nutrition, supplementation and attitude that prevents this group from allowing depression to take hold. Their approach to whole-person healing is an example that these methods work for anyone--at any age. Necessary Nutrients A new study has compared levels of omega-3 fats in healthy people with those diagnosed with depression. Levels of omega-3 were 40 per cent lower in patients with depression, on average. It isn’t known yet whether depression causes lower omega-3 deficiencies. Possibly it’s vice versa. One theory is that diets deficient in omega-3s make people more vulnerable.

With other risk factors a low omega-3 intake can push people over the edge. Salmon oil may be nature’s Prozac. Just one 85 gram serving of salmon provides almost two grams of omega-3 oil, 10 times our daily average. Flax seed and hemp seed oils are also excellent sources of omega-3s. Even a minor deficiency of vitamin C can affect mental health. Many seniors today don’t eat enough fresh fruits and vegetables to maintain vitamin C stores. They supplement their diets to compensate. St John’s wort is an important herb for replenishing the nervous system, especially when the brain seems depleted or when the nervous system is out of balance. It contains hypericin, a natural compound that has been shown in studies to help support the nervous system by minimizing the effects of minor depression. It is a safe and natural alternative to mood-altering drugs.

Light Cures for the Blues Most artificial light lacks essential wave lengths in much the same way that refined flour lacks certain vitamins and minerals. Lack of sunlight can also create a vitamin D deficiency. In a recent study participants supplementing their diets with 400 IU of vitamin D reported feeling more enthusiastic, inspired and alert than those who took a placebo. These preliminary studies led the experts to think vitamin D may affect levels of the mood-lifting brain chemical serotonin. Depression is not a normal part of aging. Despite the problems older people face, many are very satisfied with their lives. Those are the ones who are doing something to keep it that way! References: 1. American Journal of Clinical Nutrition 119 (July); 60(1). 2. Biological Psychiatry, March 1, 1998. 3. Drugs and Aging 1998; 12.


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Sunday, February 13, 2011

MIKE OLDFIELD...TO BE FREE--LOVE THE MESSSAGE!

THERE IS A PLACE...AN INSPIRING VIDEO

INSPIRING VIDEO OF LIFE QUOTATIONS

BROADENING THE VIEW OF VALENTINE'S DAY...LET US LOVE MORE IN ALL WAYS!

Greetings friends,

With February 14th being a combination of Valentine's Day we wanted share our views about VD in a broader perspective. This day was founded on a celebration of romantic love and now it is has been commercialized so that card, chocolate and florists can cash in on the media and marketing hype surrounding it.

We will have been together 21 years on July 15th..the day we met. We vowed to keep the magic and romance alive no matter how long we are together and it works for us. On the 15th of every month we commemorate our monthly anniversary and on Monday it will be our 245th month together. We are going to combine VD and our Anniversary by going out for dinner and reminiscing about our shared history together. We also do our best to stay mindful that our sacred partnership is one of our greatest blessings and we strive to never take it or each other for granted. As life and business partners we are together most of the time because we run our businesses from two home-based offices.

So yes, we are a happy couple and enjoy celebrating our "togetherness" on Valentine's Day and every day. However, we also have empathy for the many lonely people who do not have a special someone in their lives. When we were single we often longed to have that type of union and often wondered if it would happen after the breakup of our first marriages. What we did during those years was to remember that we had a lot of other people in our lives whom we loved and who also loved us. We shifted our perspective and began celebrating VD as a day to love and appreciate ourselves and focus on spreading a message of love to others.

For those of us who believe that life is a school where we learn our soul lessons and that love is the answer to all things then maybe it is time we updated Valentine's Day to something more than a day that has only superficial value. What about sending love to all who are in need, the war-torn countries, those with the devastation in Haiti and anyone else who could benefit from a blast of unconditional love? That is what we will be doing as we enjoy the blessings of our shared path together and with everyone else we love and care about.

So friends we will be sending you our love and light on Valentine's Day and every other day. Yes, as Humans BEING the Light..there is a lot of love being generated through the ripple effect of our shared soul communities on the Internet and in our everyday lives. Within our troubled world may we all remember that love is a powerful force that leads to transformational change. May we all strive to...Love More!

Bright blessings and much love,
Coralie and my hubs David